Wolf, it worked for you twenty years ago. The world is a little bit less moral since then. Actually a whole lot less. And IT does have an hoshpoa on the frum communtiites.
I don’t want to talk against an entire group who call themselves Orthodox, but what goes on in these circles where boys and girls freely meet, I cannot begin to tell you. Nor do I have to. I’m sure you know yourself what goes on.
I’m not talking about the more settled older singles. I’m talking about late teens, early twenties. It’s a different world than when you were that age Wolf!