Reply To: Musical Chairs and Shidduchim

Blinky,

not marrying or marrying you basherte is simply a question whether those participants who did get a chair, got the “correct” or the “incorrect” chair.

what it doesn’t begin to address is how to solve the problem of not enough chairs for the participants. so long as that is the situation the cruel game with all it’s side factors will continue.

As an aside for those who don’t “believe” this to be the facts on the ground, so be it, I will not try to convince you. This thread is desinged for people who understand this to be the situation and would like to offer creative solutions to put a end to the cruel game.

Blinky: if you don’t “beleive” this to be the facts on the ground please enlighten us where the basherte for all the participants from years ago who are still waiting for their chair, because there are thousands who are still playing the game. Incidentally, the longer the participants stick around the crueler the game gets with fewer and fewer chairs to go around for them. (23 year old chairs don’t play the game with 30+ year old paricipnats)