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Sof davar, there is no shortage of top girls, there are many wonderful girls, the problem is that many parents of boys don’t see it or realize it because they are not necessarily looking for wonderful girls. THEY are looking for wonderful girls who are also a size 2 or less; not too tall but of course not short; beautiful without makeup but yet wears makeup well; is not high maintenance yet wears designer labels; comes from a wealthy home but doesn’t expect anything from their in-laws; has a magnificent home, well decorated and well appointed; went to the best schools and seminary; and is willing to put up with their son’s behaviors good or bad as well as manners or lack thereof; as well as accept their son for who he is, not what he looks like or who he can become.

And you were saying that boys are under more pressure because they have learn??????? Um, I don’t think so. Do you know how hard it is to maintain the qualifications that these mothers are looking for if one is willing to try? Do you know how difficult it is to be a size 2 if you are not naturally that thin?