aposhutayid: Of course each individual older girl on her own accord should have bitochon and do her own hishtadlus to find her zivug, however, as a ‘klal’ we must take on ourselves the responsibilty to be aware of the problem affecting the ‘klal’ and do the hishtadlus necessary so that the future crop of girls shouldn’t have to continue to face this serious problem. When we, as a community, see or even suspect a serious problem, we dare not ignore it on the grounds of emunah/bitochon, because that would border on the transgression of ‘lo taamod al dam rei’echa’.
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