Totally off the topic, but I couldnt let this comment pass without commenting.
“kindheartedness is very appropriate but not legislated by law unlike tznius, hence tznius clearly being more important.”
There are a number of mitzvos, both asai and lo saseh that involve interpersonal relationship. There are many halachos surrounding these mitzvos.
Veahavta leireacha kamocha
Veahavta es hager
Lo Sonu ish es amiso
Vehechazakta bo
to name a few.
They may get lost in the shuffle of everyday life but they are still among the taryag mitzvos. As for what is more important, I will leave that judgement call to the one who gave us the taryag mitzvos to fulfill.