ARIES…i like what you wrote,in particular that a person deserves to be respected”in the way they need to be respected”.The Torah tells us to give tzedakah to a rich man who lost his money even to the point of a horse and runners(or something like that).I also want to explain that a t’mimusdige girl who turns to her husband’s rebbeim/roshei yeshiva/SOME rabbonim)is often not taken seriously.Here are just 3 of countless examples:
1.”HE RAISED HIS FIST,BUT DID HE ACTUALLY HIT YOU?NO?…ALL MEN GET ANGRY LIKE THAT”
2.”HOTLINES?….ARE YOU THIN?”(over phone obviously)
3.”HE’S TRYING HIS BEST!””HE LAUGHS AT YOU CAUSE IT’S A NERVOUS HABIT””YOUR HUSBAND IS A TZADIK”v’choolay,v’choolay