Reply To: Who's the victim? Who's the villain?

And agreement was made prior to marriage. Who is breaking it? That’s where the fault lies. But that is a technicality. A person has a right to dedicate his life to Limud Torah, especially if so agreed. Why is divorce on the menu here? That is the problem with these fickle people who run to divorce at time of disagreement/trouble. No get is warranted in this case described, no get is entitled to in this case described, and no get ought to be granted to a parties demand for one.