THe reason why in the secular world therapy isnt something they hide is because in general when they meet each other its the externals that attract them to each other..they dont know the inner person and all his meshugaisen.
We try to look at the internals of a person,we as around about his middos,character and inner issues a person has ..We are looking to build a stable yiddish home, so we try to take the most stable and normal person possible. So you’re going to argue that a person that went for therapy is stable because they went for help and they are doing well..Well, Y do we need to take something that had issues? i’d rather take the girl/ boy who I (think) Know didn’t have any issues.