You will not be able to call Dor Yesharim unless you are the parent of one of the parties and in some cases, the shadchan although D.Y. discourages that. In order to call, you need the each party’s Dor Yesharim number, their birthdate and their control number. Those numbers (not the birthdates of course) should be in a safe place in the parents’ home or in the single person’s possession. There is very little possibility of “bothering” them with random combinations. Besides for the fact that it wouldn’t happen, who has so much time to waste for no useful purpose. If anyone remembers back to the time before Dor Yesharim, they would remember a Tay-Sachs ward in Kingsbrook with a population of Jewish children r”l. A few years ago it was empty, due to the efforts of Dor Yesharim and the compliance of the community b”H. There have been isolated cases and the heartbreak of it is enough reason to go with the system.
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