Hi, thought these numbers might be helpfull.
Rabbi Yisroel P Gornish, you prob see his name as hasgacha on restaurants, but he is very big in geirus. He and his rebetzin are very warm and may be very helpfull. 718-376-3755.
Rabbi Yisroel Reisman, also great Posek, and heart of gold.
I am trying to find Rabbi Belsky’s number also.
Call them up, and ask if you can come down to talk in person. You do not have to give them your name if you rather not.
We are all behind you on this, and please update this post with how things develope. . .