“frumladygit
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Growingirl- According to halacha a ger/giroes cannot make the bracha “shelo asani goy”.”
If this is how you were taught, however, many if not all rabbanim hold otherwise.
Please contact one of the big rabbanim mentioned. I can personally vouch that Rabbi Belsky has answered halachik questions of a lot less importance and depth for me in much detail and took a lot of time explaining the answers.
Regarding who you should date, do not limit yourself to any one kind. Do expect to find some biased FFB to your background and I am sorry for the way it will feel. You don’t know who your intended is and it may be a ffb so just go out there and look for the right one.
Also, when my BF found out around your age that they were converted as a baby, they were required to be tovel once more with aidus. I think I do know some of the answers to your status questions but it is best to talk with a gadol who will tell you for sure.
Good Luck!