The girl is in her late 20s – what has she been doing for the past 10 years to increase her education and earning power? If she wants a boy who is learning -“
A man old enough to marry a girl in her late 20s, probably should have been earning a parnassah for a couple of years by now. Maot boys who learn in Kollel after marriage and who learn for a couple of years, are in their very early 20s.