Another person came when my mom O”H passed away, and informed us that my sister had been an extremely ugly baby and she didn’t know how she could possibly wish my parents mazel tov on the birth and really mean it.
oomis, WOW! that takes the cake! (calories included 😉 ) forget for a second about the shiva, its a stupid, senseless comment to say anyway. I would love to know what she was thinking. On second thought, maybe not.