Reply To: Kvetch Therapy Thread

Smartz

There’s a reason why people say “bshaah tovah” or “beito ubizmano” Hashem has a plan for all of us. I know some great people truly wonderful guys who got married after 30. There’s a right time for everything. Your time or your spouses time hasn’t arrived. Another point, who knows what Hashem is sparing you by making you wait a long time for your spouse. Hashem works in mysterious ways and many times something that appears bad and may be difficult is to spare you from something much worse.

Actually, I look at being single as an opportunity. When you are married, life gets in the way of a lot of things. There’s so many things we can work on and do and experience now that will be so much harder once married. We have the chance to grow with nothing getting in the way. We can get involved in chassadim which a married persons schedule wouldn’t permit…