And, if the latter, did he really mean that I shouldn’t learn it with my son — or even on my own, since I sometimes translate words to myself when learning by myself?
of course neither one of us know what he said or meant. but i would presume that he at least meant that if you are going to learn his Psakim, by yourself or with your son, you should not modify your behavior without first asking a Posek how HE translates the words and interprets them and what he poskins you should do