If you read all these comments you’ll see that there is no “normal” rule of thumb for this. Some girls work and feel more independent if they pay for their own things. Other girls will save their working money for their chasuna or even for after the chasuna as a foundation of funds. Some parents don’t mind either way. Parents with very limited funds might want a girl to do both – save her money for a chasuna and also pay for her own things. There are so many possibilities that just about anything can be considered normal.
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