A lot of good advice has been given here. Aries had it on the nose, and GAW and others had good suggestions on inviting the boys to spend time at your home. The key is to make sure your own child does not feel disenfranchised. it is unfortunately very true that many groups of kids DO make others feel unwelcome, so the kid who is potentially gong to go OTD, will go where he or she DOES feel welcome. In my college years that meant kids were becoming Moonies.
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