mw, do you live in Monsey that you are so in tune to the situation? And I don’t have to answer to you because YOU are not the parent body, and I am not the principal!!! I am a mentor and a life coach, and as I said I don’t have to tell you exactly what I would say because that would depend on what the child would tell me and the circumstances and variables surrounding the child. I see how that would be difficult for you to understand that, but that all matters when dealing with children. And since it is NOT your child in question YOU would not be privy to hear what I or anyone else would say to a child in such a situation so that is neither here nor there. Parents such as yourself are a threat to the students. G-d help your child if Hashem tests her next. Did it ever occur to you, that you might be the next parent or the parent who is begging the principal to have rachmonos on your child next year? It can happen to anyone and has happened to children from the best families, the most choshuv families and even children of Roshei Yeshivos. So please don’t be so quick to judge. What if it was YOUR child would you consider her a threat to others? Would you say she has to be dealt with? Would you consider her “bad”? Or would you want the school to work with her and help her. Would you be pleading with them not to push her towards OTD?
Al tadin et chavercha ad shetagiah b’mkomah!