aries2756, terrible story, but I have some questions. Did the girl hide her pain behind a facade of gaivah and chutzpah? If so, send her to a school where the teachers are trained social workers who know how to see through her and deal with her. I understand the pain and pride of a teenager, but don’t blame the teacher for not being omniscient. No frum teacher would turn away a yesoma who is sincere enough to show her pain and ask for help.
Another thing: Where was Dad? Where were her sisters, brothers, aunts, uncles, grandparents? Why didn’t they send her for therapy? If the school was so cruel, why didn’t they switch her to a school that allows these things you don’t consider bad? Why do you blame only the school?