Reply To: Fathers and brothers dancing with the Kallah

Looking at a girl is ossur? Everything in moderation man. That is why we put up mechitzas so that people don’t spend majority of time looking and intermingling with each other. It is a geder. Maybe we should pluck our eyes out so we don’t look at each other. Going to the other extreme is what other religions do, Yiddishkeit is so beautiful because we live heimishe lives in this world.