The “Is fun allowed” was a question to Squeak who said we were reverting back to germanic wedding styles. As I’m half German and understand the “no sense of humor” thing, it made me laugh and was a natural question.
Ahhh, didn’t realize I was supposed to field it. Of course fun is allowed. Germans just define fun differently.
An example of fun is when you tap along to music (without ruffling your bowtie). Fun is allowed.
Correct me if I’m wrong, you are better qualified to speak from this viewpoint than I (you are half-German)