I see. The fact is that most guys from lakewood rent a car for dates. It is much cheaper and easier than taking a bus and then using taxis.
The fact is also that most girls expect to be taken to the city.
I am not causing my own anxiety, this whole discussion is irrelevant to me.
Why don’t you tell us how much you think a date from lakewood to flatbush costs; from queens to flatbush; and from queens to Northern NJ.
Hiding behind a laugh makes someone a fool. Be careful it’s not you.