I beleive that the level of self confidence is so low that we don’t hold our participation in a wedding to be of any value.
Hence why I don’t participate at weddings. No one needs to see me pretend to be dancing when I’m really just making a fool of myself.
I do that well enough just by breathing… I don’t have to compound it by dancing. I’d rather just fade back into the corner somewhere — far away from the dancing and the shtick.*
The Wolf
* Unless I have my camera with me — but then I’m not dancing, I’m shooting. 🙂