Sacrilege
There are plenty of girls who get dates who arent rich and gorgeous. If someoen isnt getting dates it is very likely that they dont have the right shadchanim working for them, I know of plenty of regular looking girls (friends of my sister) who have no money who got plenty of dates and are married now.
A person has to do Hishtadlus and that means recruiting as many people as possible to work on their behalf.
(Oh and I dont inclue your aunt or siblings because nobody is going to believe a word they say about you because they are nogeiah bdavar. Find people who consider themselves shadchanim, who have made shidduchim and give them a call and stay in touch with them so that you are always on their mind.)