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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder just because you may not think you are attractive doesn’t mean you aren’t and there will be plenty of guys out there who will find you attractive. If you aren’t a natural beauty you can still look really good if you know how to apply cosmetics properly.
Anyways as for being rich, that’s out of your hands but if you have a good degree behind you that can mean there’s earning potential.
Now for being chilled, that is something you can work on. I’m telling you now, we guys are not perfect and it drives us crazy to have someone on our heads nagging us and pointing out our flaws. Most guys also can’t stand girls who are moody or kvetchy or overly emotional and cry over everything.
You don’t have to feel chilled inside, just act chilled and make your husband think you are chilled, and keep up the act until it becomes you.