Eclicpse
Oder yu oder nein. There is a tendency by a significant # of women to be “hard to please” or “moody.” This leads to unnecessary broodiness and nagging. Personally I think its a female tendency to project their inner problems or feelings onto others or specifically those around them. Like if she is upset about something, or just feels down about herself she will lash out at her husband even though he is innocent…
Additionally there are women who just have unrealistic expectations. If your husband comes home wiped at the end of a day, don’t bore him to death with stupidities, yes he loves you but he dealt with stupid annoying people all day, if you act annoying its hard not to equate you with the people he has to deal with all day and emotionally shut down.
Another point, many women don’t realize that men need love and affection, they think its only a womans need. Maybe men are supposed to be tough and rugged but that’s not the case these days and if you don’t give your man what he needs emotionally as well as physically he can’t and won’t be a happy camper. You don’t get the male psyche. You put a man down or insult his ego he’s not going to forgive you very quickly because we care about our egos and our “image” very much.
Married men, can I have some testimony to the validity of my comments?