Feif Un
If you are talking to me with “So basically, you think everyone should always follow the more machmir shitah”
then I would respond that a person should go with the Roiv or mainstream Shita. A heter is usually a das yachid or a few yeschidim and usually those shitos themselves will always add disclaimers like its best to be machmir but bshas hadchak….
Lets face it, in most situations the Heters we look for are just to make life a little more convenient. Its nothing really necessary. Im not talking about a case where you already did something and now need a Heter to make it ok. But Lchatchila to look for Heterim on things as your mahalach in Yiddishkiet, thats bad news.