Each person must truly know themselves…My friend is a secretary in a boys school– but if anyone gets too friendly with her, the mere look on her face scares the living daylights out of them.
I, on the other hand,wouldn’t take such a job because I know I will end up being a magnet for the downtrodden who mistake a courteous smile for an invitation to get married.You gotta know your personality and put up gedarim GALORE.You will NEVER BLUNDER WITH GEDARIM…AND DON’T LET ANYONE TALK YOU OUT OF sticking to WHATEVER FENCES YOU SET UP.