Brooklyn Yenta,thank you.Just to point out,though:
As a kaf z’chus for SOME of them(I’m not saying all), I want to explain that some husbands do a pretty good job turning their wives OFF of whatever type of yiddishkeit they represented,thus the “off-the-derech” behavior of SOME divorcees.
It is extremely important to see them exactly as one would view a Holocaust survivor who lost his faith because of his experiences.COMMENDABLE?Perhaps not.Understandable? Yes.And only for Hashem to judge?Definitely.