Ouch, Ofcourse. That is really hurtful.
Definitely time to try my suggestion of getting face time with a shul’s rebbetzin.
Many shuls have as few as 30 women on a standard shabbos, so a bright, presentable girl should have no problem getting to be a “real face” instead of raw data.
Several shuls come to mind, but those are based on my personal preferences and my location. Pick ones that work for you and let your personality do the talking!