u seem to have many theories….have any of them ever been tested or proven accurate at least??!?
but to answer ur question, i would def not fly for a first date, and def not pay. As Sac put it….guys are hunters…if u want me come get me, or pay for me, if not, ur loss!!! and this guy in europe spontaneously bought me a ticket after he had been the one coming in every month for business and to date.