Eclipse
There are certain flaws that get in the way of finding a spouse or keeping one. Those need to be worked on no matter how long it takes and if its taking really long its likely that the person isn’t going about it the best way. Its not easy to change bad habits or middos but if one is persistent and throws themselves behind the self improvement project they can change a middah in a matter of months. In essence its about changing how you think which leads to how feel and how you act….