J,
If G already took the decision to talk , she had no choice but to make the best of it. As she continued to say during the interview, ‘We have to stand by eachother and help one another ‘(gosh, I hope not too many people read between the lines there)
One MUST DAN LECAFF ZECHUS AT ALL TIMES. However, we cannot be naive either.
They said they wanted to sue.. When that happens, and they succeed, my opinion might change.
Until then my friend, don’t fault my attitude for making logical observations which most people in the frum community seem to agree with.
If I were you, I would use that vigor and stamina to perhaps befriend H and M. You might be able to give them some guidance and encourage them to get back on track, so that they can reabilitate their reputation.