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When things calm down, re-read WIY post. He meant no harm or disrespect to you.
he wrote
“Id like to add to what tzippi said.”
so far agreeing with a nice comment
“NEVER let her hear you ever voice a complaint against Hashem Chas Veshalom”
his point, if parents tell kids make a bracha and don’t forget hashem loves us, and 2 minutes later, i have no money for pesach, why am i jewish? the kids always hear the last part.
“that will instantly undo so much of the growth and change that any therapist…will accomplish with her.”
he means IF and only IF you would complain, which he didn’t say you do, it would undo the work of the therapist, and you’re work on her as well.
on a side note reb moshe said the reason ppl weren’t frum after ww2 was for this reason, they got fired, came home and by the shabbos table complained it’s hard to be a jew.
He meant well, re-read it and tell me what you think.
all the best!