I know someone who bought a new house. They saved up and got a really good deal on a big, fixed up house from someone who needed instant cash. Imagine this – she said she is embarrassed to move cuz pple will talk – “why do they need such a big house”
“are they trying to pop our eyes out” etc.
No, pple don’t want you to be jealous of them. They do what works for them and what they feel is comfortable for them. By your talking and analyzing, YOU, with your small house, create the pressure.