GAW: you got it…..
TMB:
I’m not sure what is hard to undersatnd.
1. far far more shidduchim are made by non proffesinals than are made by proffesinals.
2. Thus there is a unlimited number of people who potentially could be invocled in redding shidduchim
3. look around at how hard it is for girls to get attention. obviously. Clearly these non proffesionals aren’t working at it enough. If they where every girl would be innundated with tons of suggestions from her family members, family shul chevra, classmates husbandss etc. How is it that girls go months with out the phone even ringing???? Sure once in a while these “non-profesionals” if they have an idea they’ll try. That’s not going to cut it for the community at large. Hence girls are stuck practically begging for attention from shadchanim. My concpet will have these ppl looking out for their classmates, family friends etc. in a serious way.
Tzippi: I’m sorry you are confused, try re-reading my posts.