APY: boys 18-22….. ummm last I checked boys 18-20 weren’t even in the parsha and in many circles till 22…. hence what we call age gap… you are saying it without even realizing it….
we can discuss why they aren’t dating before 22, but the point is so long as they are not we have a serious shortage of males in the game.
APY: and why do you think any boys mother would answer your phone call?