idk if i can relate exactly, but my nonjewish friends from college are aware of my jewish beliefs and we stay clear of the topic of religion. everyone has different outlooks and views, my motto is LIVE AND LET LIVE…do what u want as long as it doesnt infringe upon my wellbeing and im a big believer in that across the board…
if she is imposing her beliefs/veiws upon u and u feel uncomfortable, it may be time to take a step back, but that would hold true with anyone jewish or not.