being honest and open in the shidduch dating world is crucial, unfortunately many people feel the need to lie in order to get “the shidduch.” The truth will always prevail….I will actually share a personal story that just happened to me today….we had been dating for nearly 2 month, and we broke up because i would not compromise on shomer negiah, but u know what i was so happy because at least he was being honest about and open about it and not pretending or pressuring me. Also I felt like it was a huge test from Hashem and bh bh bh i past this one!!! and im better off….
i agree with other posters, if hes even lying about his age (ex. hes 29 and tells you hes 27) how can u trust a guy like that??? if hes lying about this who knows what else??? NEVER EVER LIE IN SHIDDUCHIM….Hashem knows who ur beshert is, and all you have to do is daven and have emunah….i know its def easier said than done…hatzlacha!!!