Oomis, if he told you about the DUI, would it be then less problematic’
Honestly,no, ebcause I absolutely cannot stand guys who get drunk and get behind the wheel of a car. But I was thinking more along the lines of this being found out by other people who then would relay this to me. I would be furious at the shadchan for hiding something that serious (as an arrest record). A person has the right to reject such a shidduch if they so choose. Maybe someone else would be more open to it.