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aries2756 and bptotty thanks for your support..
to the ones accusing me of “ripping apart” the date, well I still think it’s better than going and discussing him in real life with people which could definitely lead to loshon hora and embarrassment, whereas here there is almost zero possibility that anyone can identify him, (unless you happened to have seen a guy strolling midnight with a half emptied bottle of spring water in his hand ;>) I listed details pertaining to my concerns, I did not say he’s a bad person. (on the other hand I also mentioned that there were enough other CLEAR reasons why I said no, I just brought up the things in coffee room that I was WONDERING about.)
anyway I did not even specify how recently this happened.. so chill please. I have the right to come here for advice and that doesn’t make me rude immature or thoughtless,
thank you.