aries2756; I totally agree. You have to have at least enough sechel to know it’s odd even in the goyishe world, not talking about metros, italian mobsters etc… So go to some goyishe place
that doesnt have any heimshe clientele.
I’m sure you’ll get s’char halicha or at least credit for not creeping out jewish women or puting them in a lifnei Iver sitch of having to be dan you lekaf Z’chus that you’re a Tzudreiter.