popa based on your first reply that it’s assur to marry a lady whom you’re not attracted to I take it that you’re a posek, so I just want to clarify a few shailos I had
1)Is it better for bochrim to wear jeans or go on the internet?
2)If there is no counter for me to slam the change onto while I am working as a cashier, what should I do?
3)Is wearing a red velvet yarmulke untznius?
4)Can a brother hug his sister? Can he speak to her?