Reply To: Am I shallow?

@coffeefan-

Thank you and no hard feelings. I chose to write it was just the weight because I think if she was thinner I would have found her attractive enough. That was really the deciding factor. Also as I said before, people don’t stay exactly the same after you marry them but you can only do so much and if that is what Hashem has in mind for you, than ok that is one of my nisyonos.

@1dayatime and @ raised eyebrows-

Thanks for your advice, that is really what I was looking for.

and amen to all your brochos and you too if you are in need.