Dunno-
Sometimes its good to give things some thought. I feel like sometimes people just do away with situations that might work out if some effort was put into it. Some people (especially boys) have the “disposable attitude”, if this doesn’t work out for me on the first shot then I’ll just dump it and move on to the next one.
When it is the right one, it doesn’t necessarily mean that it is going to go smoothly and without any hitches. Sometimes, people need to work on things together in order for a relationship to develop. Don’t give up on someone just because some effort may be needed.