Home › Forums › Shidduchim › Dating & Giving In › Reply To: Dating & Giving In
Sacri- what a woman needs for a mate is a man with a good sense of intellect and wisdom, as he is ultimately going to be the Captain of the ship (of the home) – so if you are finding yourself uncomfortable with the amount of compromising and concessions you must make, then I’d say its a sign he is not for you, because if he were what you needed then his suggestions or say the concessions you make for it to “work” would be like so gratifying that its’ like a cool refreshing glass of water when one is thirsty. You’d be left with a feeling of “i am so glad that I am being taken down this road”. I gave up a lot of things when I got engaged, at my chassan’s gentle, hinting request. And I was so relieved in so many ways that he had such seichel.