Fact: The vast majority of shidduchim are not made by “shadchanim”. (they set up perhpas the majority of dates, by not the majority of made shidduchim).
Fact: Presently there are simply way to few “non-shadchanim” involved in setting up their friends, neighbors etc.
As such tons of girls try to get the attention of shadchanim because to sit back and wait for the call from friends etc that never comes is way way to risky. The result is the small number of “shadchanim” are simply unable to deal with all the people coming to them. They try their best see my earlier post as one shadchan describes her dialy routine) but it’s simply impossible.
Question: what could be done to encourge and empower hundreds more people to spend time redding shidduchim. what could be done to creat a situation where in every grade/school/community there would be sufficient people dedciated to redding shidduchim????
Asnwer: see the model that has been discussed numerous times in other threads and is being implemented succesfully and growing quickly.
Imy”h in a years time it will be tens of communities and tens of schools. NOW that’s a real hope for all the singles out there.