popa_bar_abba – In response to your question, yes the boy is not allowed to hand her the ring. When I got engaged (B”H I’m married now with a few kids KA”H) my Chosson put the ring down – didn’t actually hand it to me. He also reminded me that it’s not Kiddushin. (He actually had it waiting for me in the car when he came to pick me up…)
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