Sac, you obviously have a dislike for all/most Shadchanim. So do I! Especially the ones who mistreated me or my children! I hate them, hate them, hate them! Im sure there are those who hate me… What can I say?!? It’s a thankless job, in cases where you havent hit it right, and that’s unfortunately most cases….People feel if the Shadchanim only tried harder they’d be married, it’s the Shadchanim’s fault.
Now, please take out your magic wand, Sac. Let’s eliminate every single of the lousy Shadchanim (including myself). Let’s get them out of the picture. Done. Now, how would you suggest singles in the frum community meet, starting today?