Divorced_Guy – what’s wrong with a lady your own age? Why should a girl be interested in someone so much older? What do you have to offer? Be realistic.
I once tried to redt a shidduch for a guy who was so well-padded that his gut lapped out over his belt. His first question about the girl was, “Is she skinny?” My reaction was to say, “If she were skinny why would she want somebody with a spare tire like yours?” but I bit my tongue and was silent. However, she returned the compliment. He was a “working boy” and her seminary teachers would never have approved.